I’ve made a video on installing the drivers for this adapter, the steps are similar but please listen carefully to the notes that I mention.
Basically try this on a fresh install
Experiment with connecting the adapter before and after Kali loads.
Experiment with setting the adapter to use usb 3 and 2.
Here’s the video
Also please let me know if you get any errors when running the commands shown in the video, and no you don’t need to replace the xx with anything.